Connecting with Your Child
As our infants grow into toddlers and do less nuzzling and more NO-ing, how do we maintain a strong connection while setting the necessary limits?
Can we keep the relationship close as our child starts daycare or preschool and we teach her to problem-solve and navigate her own path?
As our kids move into the school years and out into the world, how do we stay connected so they WANT to follow our expectations?
And as our kids evolve into teenagers -- when we get fired as the boss -- how can we make sure we have the necessary trust and intimacy with them so that we get rehired as consultants?
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Building a Great Relationship with Your Child
Want to be a great parent? Want to raise a happy, healthy, well-behaved kid? Want to live in a home where discipline becomes unnecessary? The secret is to create a closer connection with your child.
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Why You Need To Re-Connect Daily
Scientists have found a way to predict which couples will end up divorcing: those who don’t insure that they have at least 5 positive interactions for every negative one. According to Dr. John Gottman of the Gottman Institute, it is likely that maintaining this 5 to 1 ratio is effective insurance in every relationship, including between parents and children.
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What's Connection Parenting? Q and A
What's Connection Parenting? Prioritizing your relationship with your child, because you know that's the foundation for emotional well-being.
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5 Secrets for a Closer Bond with Your Child
Intimacy is the glue that strengthens family bonds. It's what connects us over the years, and across the miles. It's what gets us through the hard times. It's the grease that smooths the rough interactions of everyday life, and the honey that makes it all worth it.
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25 Ways To Get Closer To Your Child Today
"I watch their softly tousled heads slumbering on their pillows, and sadness wells up in me. Have I drunk in their smiles and laughter and hugged them, or have I just checked things off my to-do list today? They're growing so quickly. One morning I may wake up and one of my girls will be getting married, and I'll worry: Have I played with them enough? Have I enjoyed the opportunity to be a part of their lives?" -Janet Fackrell
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Playing with Your Child: Games for Connection and Emotional Intelligence
Playing with your child for five minutes today, in a way that gets them laughing, is probably the best way you can spend five minutes with your child.
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10 Habits to Strengthen Your Relationship with Your Child
"I can't believe how things with my daughter have turned around, since I started focusing on connection." - Zoe
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When You Lose it With Your Child: 5 Tips To Repair
"After hearing you speak, I decided never to yell at my kids again. I want to be a good role model. But only 24 hours later, I completely lost it and found myself screaming like a crazy woman."
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